There was a time when clean language was the norm and
swearing was unusual. Boy, how the tables have turned! Nowadays, the words that
would have gotten kids’ mouths washed out with soap or given ladies “the vapors”
are commonplace in popular media, the workplace, and in our homes. Frankly, I
don’t like it.
Now, I’m certainly no prude. I have definitely used
profanity more times than I’d care to admit. And I’m not taking a religious or
biblical view of it, either. There are many interpretations and controversies
lying in wait there. But I do bemoan the effect the decline of language has had
on our culture. The English language (and, I’d daresay, all others) has
sufficient words available to describe anger, frustration, hyperbole, and so
forth without resorting to “coarse language.”
The great wits like George Bernard Shaw, Winston Churchill,
and Oscar Wilde were able to create scathing insults without resorting to unacceptable
terminology. Being adept at using the F word as a noun, verb, adjective, and an
adverb does not really impress one’s audience with his or her command of the
language! And, speaking of “his or her,” there is little differentiation
between the sexes in the use of bad language, either.
This decline did not happen overnight, of course. Over the
years, the line of acceptable language has moved almost imperceptibly. There
were some major leaps, such as George Carlin’s “7 Dirty Words.” But, for most
of us, we just heard and said more of the stuff that was formerly forbidden. Location
used to matter: we could say certain things in the locker room but not at the
dance. Those lines have been erased, as well.
Is there a way to put the genie back into the bottle and
clean up our language? It’s a very tall order, but we each have the willpower
to clean up our own act if we choose. Why not give it a try? Make an effort for
a day, then a week, to avoid swearing. It could become a habit. You might have
to become more creative in your use of the language. And you’ll stand out. Even
if some may mock you, I’d be pretty sure they’ll secretly admire you.
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